Yes thank you! There's a whole underclass of basically untouchables - who are extremely unlikely to ever find true romantic happiness or a meaningful, reciprocal sexual relationship.

This piece and a shocking number of people who read it seemingly have some kind of massive blind spot for the chronically, un-redeemably ugly people out there.

I know it's very trendy to shit on "incels" and many of them are mentally ill in various ways, but a good number of them are just plain old ugly and have never been able to muster the confidence to as you say, cultivate other aspects of themselves, because they are constantly degraded and humiliated in their interpersonal and public interactions.

Everyone has flaws, but most people's worst flaws are not literally written on their face. Imagine tattooing "alcoholic" or "addicted to porn" or "chronic liar" on your forehead as an analogy.